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Wednesday, 30 May 2012

THE BRIDGE OF FRIENDSHIP

THE BRIDGE OF FRIENDSHIP






THE BRIDGE OF FRIENDSHIP

Friendship is like a beautiful bridge, where the distance from one end to the other end is always equal. Two friends have to take equal effort & time to keep up their feeling of love, care, respect & trust. Take time to appreciate each other and let them know what they mean to you.  As time goes by , it becomes strong....But the day one of them feels that he/she is walking that extra mile to keep up these feelings,  however strong your bond is a crack starts forming & the ugly head of ego comes up between them. As the crack widens, doubt & rejection creeps in. It is then there is an exchange of words in anger & the bridge of friendship is broken down into dust. After an outpour of words, it becomes very difficult to pick up the pieces to regain that friendship. So never take friendship for granted....Ensure that neither gets a feeling of just being an option & not a priority. Value each friendship you have made & take time & effort to keep it alive. So it is in any other relationship.

6 comments:

Nikhil Hussain Nallascrap said...

thought provoking and inspiring words chechi.. well written

Geetha Paniker said...

Thank you Nikhil

Ruby Philip said...

Such a beautiful & true write up.. Chechi. I have realised the value of friendship... though late.. I missed out on so many years.. so may days of wonderful friendship which my friend gave me unconditionally. I was bc with other petty things & new friends.. while she was always there for me..waiting for me to look at her, to hold her hand, to just listen to her. She never complained.. never fought. We were room mates for Bachelors degree. I continued my PG in the same college but she left after her degree & joined another college for PG.. later she told me that she left the college to join another college cos I had hurt her so much :-( I miss you Minu... I love you a lot. Though late.. I realised my folly and sincerely apologised to her..we are best friends once again. I have realised never to take any relationship for granted...I got the opportunity to apologise & make it up... but we may not be lucky always !! She's in Doha now married to another friend of mine.
THANK YOU CHECHI.. FOR THIS WONDERFUL FRIENDSHIP... LUV U LOTS !!

Geetha Paniker said...

Thank you Ruby..true & honest sentiments.....

Anonymous said...

Value each friendship you have made & take time & effort to keep it alive You are an example for that chechi :)

Geetha Paniker said...

Thank you Sherly....